Wouldn’t it be nice if we had more hours in a day? Or if we could just not have to spend so much time sleeping? I normally only get about 5 hours, but that’s five hours I could spend doing all the things I have to do. I actually slept in until 10:45 this morning because Alex (my youngest) is at his dad’s this weekend. I came downstairs to find the dog with his legs crossed (not really – he can hold it a long time) and thought to myself I wish I’d gotten up earlier. But we need sleep once in a while, right? Ugh.
I’m often tempted to use the phrase “I’d give my right arm…” but really, would I? Imagine what that would do to my gait when I’m walking… I’d be going in circles all the time. Typing would be a hassle, as would giving people hugs. One-armed hugs are so impersonal, though I suspect anyone getting a hug from a one-armed person would not likely take it personally. (Seriously, if anyone out there is missing their right arm or knows someone who is, I mean absolutely no disrespect. Just musing on the realities…)
Actually, I have lived without the use of my right arm for the most part when I had a frozen shoulder. Remember that? My gratitude for my right arm has increased tenfold since then. Although I did retain some of the dexterity I gained from having to be left-handed. And oh! the sleep deprivation when my shoulder was frozen! I’ve never known such pain!
So I guess I’ve answered my own question. Would I give my right arm for sleep? Apparently not.
Thanks, stream of consciousness writing.
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October 19, 2017 at 7:20 am
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So glad you’re enjoying the book of account, Michael.
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August 1, 2017 at 2:48 am
I’d much more happily give up my right arm than the one on the other side. I’m very left-handed, you see…
And I so hear you about sleep. I actually found myself resenting the hours I needed to sleep a couple of times last month, and feeling guilty for taking the time. Seriously, what’s THAT about?! I’m like you – I usually only sleep 5 hours, sometimes less – and there are times I don’t sleep for 30-35 hours.
So….yeah.
May we both remember what’s worth our dominant arms, and what’s not. =D
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August 6, 2017 at 10:14 pm
Haha! Yes indeed, my dear. Yes indeed. 🙂
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July 31, 2017 at 12:16 am
Great prompt–I always think I want to participate, but get hung up on the idea that stream of consciousness means exactly that–no planning! 🙂 I totally couldn’t give up a limb for any reason–as it is, I could really use an extra one or 2, if you know someone willing, and for a discount price 🙂 🙂
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August 1, 2017 at 2:58 am
I actually asked for a third arm for several years….and that was before I had kids!
If anyone offers you one, will you tell me who and how much? =D
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August 1, 2017 at 5:30 am
I certainly will, haha! Maybe we can get a special deal, 2 customers for a discounted price 🙂 🙂 I’m thinking moms need to be like octopi–lots of extra arms, and those handy sucker things for when you need to corral all the kids and “stick” them in one place…at least for 30 minutes 🙂
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August 1, 2017 at 5:34 am
Well….honestly, I don’t try to control mine, and, at 13 and almost 16, the need to know where they are every minute is past…but it would be amazing to be able to sip coffee and type at the same time! =D
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August 1, 2017 at 5:35 am
I guess I was thinking of a houseful of younger ones–they can get away and into mischief so fast 🙂
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August 6, 2017 at 10:02 pm
Indeed they can. I’m with you on needing the extra arms – and legs! 🙂
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August 7, 2017 at 12:27 pm
🙂
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July 30, 2017 at 12:14 am
I had to have the tendons in my right shoulder reattached three years ago , and I found it very difficult without the use of my right arm for months. I don’t think there’s much I’d give a arm for. 🙂
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August 6, 2017 at 9:56 pm
Some situations just make you appreciate things that much more, eh? Glad you got your arm back. 🙂
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August 6, 2017 at 10:25 pm
Me too, pulling up your pants is hard with one. 😊
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August 6, 2017 at 10:29 pm
Ugh, SO many things you take for granted! The worst for me was going to the toilet.
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July 29, 2017 at 11:05 pm
Well because most people are right handed, their right arm is pretty important to their functioning. Sleep is very important too. And going without it is not virtuous and can damage your health. Good to be allowed to sleep in. You need it and deserve it.
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August 3, 2017 at 11:02 pm
I do realize lack of sleep is bad for me, but there’s really nothing I can do about it, save hiring a nurse I can’t afford. 😛 Thanks, Deborah.
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August 4, 2017 at 1:35 pm
That’s a tough thing to deal with. My sleep is getting disrupted by this crazy hot weather and there can be other stuff that can make us lose sleep like worrying about our kids. So don’t worry if you get to sleep in on occasion. 🙂
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August 4, 2017 at 2:06 pm
I won’t. Thank you for helping ease my mind, Deborah. 🙂
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July 29, 2017 at 9:43 pm
Once I was in hospital for a whole week and the nurses came in and put an IV in my hand, without waking me to ask which one I use more. This ended up meaning I lost use of my dominant hand for two or three weeks, as the port stayed in that long. It was horrible. Kind of like using the whole use of that limb really. I have read a lot about actual loss of dumb and the phantom pain. Nobody would want that, but interesting expression. If it makes you think I guess.
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August 3, 2017 at 10:55 pm
The expression really kinda does make you think – you’d have to want something really bad to give your right arm. But then it’s like many expressions. I mean, who could eat a horse, even if they were really hungry? Haha.
When my son, Alex, goes into hospital and needs an IV, I always ask them to put it in his foot. He can’t communicate without his hands.
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July 29, 2017 at 9:01 pm
I often wonder how that term,”give me right arm” came into usage. Why the right and not the left? As for frozen shoulder, that’s taking a cold shoulder to some extreme isn’t it. I’ve know a few frozen hearts but I think that’s different Yes? I don’t think I’d be happy giving up anything at the present time, every bit is needed in one way or another.
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August 3, 2017 at 10:51 pm
Haha! Yes, the older we get, the more we hope our bits stay put. 😉 🙂
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August 3, 2017 at 11:03 pm
I’m reading your novel at the moment and really enjoying it. So you’re more than a pretty face eh?
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August 3, 2017 at 11:23 pm
Yes. I also have a pretty damned sexy right arm. 😉 Hehe.
So glad you’re enjoying the book, Michael. 🙂 Thanks for saying so.
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August 3, 2017 at 11:24 pm
Its a good yarn Linda..well done I hope it does well for you..
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August 3, 2017 at 11:26 pm
Thank you. 🙂 I think it will do better once the second book is out. Hoping for this year.
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August 3, 2017 at 11:26 pm
well good luck with it….
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July 29, 2017 at 7:57 pm
As someone who struggles with her arms and hands thanks to arthritis, I can honestly say, I need all the limb ability I can get! I am thankful and won’t be giving my right arm, even though it failed me three times today.
I remember when you jacked-up your shoulder, as I did mine right around the same time. Difference being I could afford to baby mine.
Sleep, well, I have you beat there. I sometimes get 10 hours of sleep, sometimes two days in a row. I don’t like to go to bed, and I don’t like to get up. I’m not good at either one, but I wouldn’t trade my right arm to be so 😉
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July 29, 2017 at 9:30 pm
Sorry to hear you’re having limb problems, Joey. I’d trade places with you for a few days sleep if I could. 🙂
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July 29, 2017 at 10:22 pm
I would too. 😊
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July 29, 2017 at 7:48 pm
I wouldn’t give my right arm but I’d give my right arm before I’d give my sight. And oh gads I’d love to not NEED sleep! I am an insomniac, need more than I get, but five hours is a good night for me!
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July 29, 2017 at 9:23 pm
Oh me too – I don’t know how I’d survive without my sight! Sorry to hear you have problems sleeping. It’s happened to me, but luckily it’s not a chronic thing. My lack of sleep is due entirely to responsibility.
Here’s to at least 5 hours!
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July 29, 2017 at 6:54 pm
I put my right arm and hand through hell over my lifetime. Then broke my right wrist a few years ago. Can’t sleep long on my right side and carry heavy loads with my left. I figure I owe my right a rest. And yes it’s ok to sleep in when you can. Your lucky you don’t have dogs who wake you up at 5:00 to go out.
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July 29, 2017 at 9:17 pm
Heh, no, just a kid who I have to wake up at 5:30 to feed. 😛 The dog on top of that would probably kill me.
It’s frustrating to be limited in what we can do, isn’t it? I remember that well when I had the frozen shoulder. I’m sure I have more to look forward to as I age … more.
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July 29, 2017 at 11:31 pm
Getting old is interesting to say the least. But then, old keeps on getting older than me.
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August 3, 2017 at 10:43 pm
Haha! Yeah, it’s one of those things we never seem to catch up to. Like “tomorrow.” 🙂
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July 29, 2017 at 5:32 pm
I’m lucky to get enough sleep. I don’t need more. I’ve experienced life without one arm working well, and I wouldn’t go back to that.
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July 29, 2017 at 9:09 pm
Nope, you and me both. Nice to hear someone’s getting a good night’s sleep! 🙂
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July 30, 2017 at 6:24 am
I feel a little guilty
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August 3, 2017 at 10:41 pm
Haha! Don’t. We all need a break somehow. I get mine when dear friends offer to help me out. 🙂
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July 29, 2017 at 4:57 pm
Nope, nada, would not give up my right arm or any limb for more hours…knowing me, I would still be procrastinating…however, would I give up a limb for someone I love…probably…nah, of course I would for my kids or grandson…yep, that I would and the hug is all in the closeness and the squeeze. When I hug people I love, I usually tell them to squeeze harder 🙂
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July 29, 2017 at 9:06 pm
Yep, I’d give up my right arm for my kids too. Let’s hope we never have to though, eh? *hugs you* 😀
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July 29, 2017 at 3:40 pm
I’d give my right arm for more sleep. It’s not exactly doing much for me now…
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July 29, 2017 at 9:03 pm
Oh my… Can you still walk in a straight line at least?
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July 29, 2017 at 3:13 pm
I use my right arm too much… maybe my left Lol!
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July 29, 2017 at 3:26 pm
You’d still be walking around in circles… Haha. 🙂 😉
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July 29, 2017 at 8:07 pm
Lol!!!
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July 29, 2017 at 2:55 pm
Frozen shoulders, ugh. Within a two year span my right rotator cuff froze up and then my left. Each required about 12 weeks of physical therapy to “thaw.” What a pain in the butt…I mean shoulder!
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July 29, 2017 at 3:25 pm
I know, right? Two years later and I still don’t have the same range of movement I started with. But now I’m afraid to try to improve it in case I injure it again. It really was a living hell. Glad to hear you “thawed.” 🙂
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July 29, 2017 at 4:13 pm
I had an excellent physical therapist. She worked the hell out of me, but in the end, it was worth all the very painful effort.
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July 29, 2017 at 8:54 pm
I did it without a physio – I had advice and that was it. I wasn’t very good at keeping up the exercises. 😛
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July 29, 2017 at 2:23 pm
Really enjoyed this, how we use phrases to express ideas yet how in reality we would double back, someone at work said, “wouldn’t it be great if we had a third arm, we’d get so much more done,” and I explained the reality, and got really into how that arm would develop, they looked at me like I was from a different planet haha
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July 29, 2017 at 2:26 pm
Haha! I bet they did. Like having eyes in the back of your head – to make it feasible you’d pretty much have to be bald. Otherwise you’d be picking hair out of your eyes all the time. 😛 😀
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July 29, 2017 at 1:59 pm
Of course you would not!
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July 29, 2017 at 2:04 pm
Nope. And now I know it for sure. 😛 🙂
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July 29, 2017 at 2:57 pm
💗
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July 29, 2017 at 1:58 pm
I wouldn’t be giving any of my limbs either, Linda! The older I get the more I value everything! 🙂
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July 29, 2017 at 2:03 pm
Haha! I know just what you mean.
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