When I visited Japan in 2005 I was struck by the beauty of the land with its mountains and valleys, towns nestled in between as though they had grown up from the ground and the way the Japanese make their culture known, from the most magnificent temples to the tiniest of window boxes.
But what most deeply affected me was the people themselves. Their capacity to give of themselves to a complete stranger without asking anything in return was astounding. I found that all I had to do was stop on a sidewalk and look at a map and someone would invariably come up to me and ask me if I needed help to find where I was going. I had people walk far out of their way to escort me to places I wanted to go. In fact, in Kyoto I did my best to get lost, just in order to have a reason to talk to people. But it wasn’t just the fact that they were helpful, it was the eagerness and the grace with which they offered.
I promised myself when I got on the plane to come back to Canada that if ever I had the opportunity to help a Japanese person I would go as far out of my way as so many of them did for me. Unfortunately that opportunity came in the form of disaster. Two years ago today I grieved when I learned so many of these wonderful, generous people were lost, and all I could do at the time was send money. I hope that I will be able to go back, next time to help with the restoration of a beautiful land laid to waste.
It’s odd, I suppose, that a born and bred Canadian should think of a country almost half way around the world as home. But that, I do. I love Japan and its people.
Itsuka Nihon ni kaerimasu.
March 12, 2013 at 11:34 pm
I agree, living in Asia (South Korea here) is definitely an odd feeling to be at home. For me it is more the land and the people really help too (unless you are in Seoul, not so much there). Being from Ontario myself, the mountains hypnotize me. I felt the same in Alberta when i visited there. Character in land is what inspires me 🙂
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March 12, 2013 at 11:44 pm
I agree, the mountains just seem so… cozy. They give you a feeling of being sheltered. I’m about two hours east of Toronto – not much going on as far as hills here. :p
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March 13, 2013 at 6:13 am
Sounds like you are in the Bratford or Kitchener area. Yeah, Southern Ontario is rather boring, Northern Ontario is much nicer but still not the same as any mountainous areas 🙂
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March 12, 2013 at 10:59 pm
Souls have life paths that speak back to them as kindred and perhaps the kindness of Japan resonates and reflects, your kindness and also compassion – Hugs kermit99
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March 12, 2013 at 11:05 pm
I would be proud to be considered kindred to the Japanese.
Thank you 🙂
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March 11, 2013 at 7:08 pm
March 11, we won’t forget this date.
We’ve learnt so much and we are still learning from this disaster.
I do hope you can visit Japan once again pretty soon!
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March 11, 2013 at 11:06 pm
Thank you for commenting. I hope so too!
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March 11, 2013 at 9:09 am
Wow, what a gorgeous photo, too. And a very thoughtful, compassionate blog. It just goes to show that the only thing bigger than a good heart is nature. Relentless, unbiased nature. You’ll get to go ‘home’ again someday.
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March 11, 2013 at 9:33 am
🙂
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March 11, 2013 at 5:53 am
I appreciate you instead of people who is damaged. I’m sorry, I can’t tell you the appreciation fully by English.
I walked 6 hours to go back home from company then. But it was just good exercise. My relatives in Ishinomaki city were damaged. It was big damage 😦
But there was a good news that the relative had a child 🙂 They are recovering little by little.
And I’m happy to hear your Japan travel and you met good Japanese!
I will help you when you come to Japan 🙂
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March 11, 2013 at 8:47 am
There is a saying in English – ‘Life goes on’. I’m happy some good came to your relatives. 🙂
Doumo arigatou, watashi no tomodachi. 😀
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March 11, 2013 at 9:24 am
Douitashimashite 🙂 Thank you my friend!
And I also supossed to upload an article of the disaster but it has not finished 😦 Maybe it will be uploaded tomorrow.
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March 11, 2013 at 9:35 am
It is a difficult subject to write about. Take your time.
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