Write what you know; write what you know; yes, yes, okay we get it already. But have you ever wanted to write who you know? Fictionally that is.
When I write, I write characters. Plots in my stories, are secondary. I take, for instance, a scenario, ask ‘what if?’ and off I go. Once I have a character in place, they decide what happens in the circumstance I put them in.
I know a few people very well. Family, friends – I can’t help but know them. The people I don’t know very well, I study. I watch the way their expressions change when they talk about certain topics that they love or which scare them… you get the picture, right?
But there’s that saying again. That rule. Write what you know.
Now say, for instance, I was to write about someone I adore. They probably wouldn’t mind. They’d be able to hold my bestseller up high and say, ‘This is about me!’ and they’d be proud to do it. But what if I wrote about someone who I don’t respect? Or someone whose personality is less than scrupulous? I wouldn’t use their real name, of course. And the story would not be the one they lived in real life. But they’d know. And I’d know that they knew. And then I’d have to wonder; are they planning to do something devious to smite me? After all, they aren’t the most the most pleasant person to deal with in the first place. How far will they go?
Write what you know. I know very little about ‘things,’ but I know a lot about people. About characters and what makes people tick.
Have you ever ‘written’ someone you know, fictionally? How would you feel if someone ‘wrote’ you?
Tick tick tick… boom!
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November 18, 2013 at 6:34 pm
I wrote a book using one person as a model in it. My ex girlfriend (who is also still my best friend) was the center of it. She’ll protest when she reads it, and then she didn’t do that, and then get annoyed at some of the things I decided to keep in there. It’ll blow over and people in general, I think, kinda like being immortalized.
My girlfriend had other ideas. She found herself everywhere (she wasn’t one character) and protested lightly. And she found my ex in there. Bad idea on my part. Very bad idea. Nothing like making an ex a main character to pin me to the wall. When she reads the revisions, I’ll probably hear about it again and I’ll probably be shunned for a while after it.
So write what you know, but be very careful about it. While the immortalized person might not mind it, others might read it and draw their own conclusions.
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November 18, 2013 at 6:44 pm
Yes, there’s definitely that aspect of it too. At this point I’m wondering how many people I can piss off.
But then again, if suzjones (my first commenter) is correct, maybe I’ll just win a prize for having the best and most believable character on the planet and no one will be the wiser! 🙂
Maybe the trick is not to tell anyone 😉
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November 18, 2013 at 6:12 pm
I’d probably be one of those goofy characters that are portrayed for comedy… but I’d also have scenes where I make a really philosophical comment. That’s how my friends see me and hehehe It’d be interesting to see how my character would play out. But one thing would be for sure… I better get 60% of the profit!
But yeah, it does depend a lot on the light you put someone else in. But hey, I know plenty of people who’d actually be willing to be bad guys! And other people have qualities that you just have to make a character out of them!
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November 18, 2013 at 6:29 pm
Haha! Yes, that’s definitely something else to keep in mind – profit sharing!
There certainly are people in the world with such strong characteristics that they’re just begging to be turned into either a hero or a villain.
Thanks very much for your interesting comment 🙂
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November 18, 2013 at 5:47 pm
Oh, I have DEFINITELY written people I know. One of my good friends is frequently featured in something that I let her read and some of her reactions were pretty hilarious… lots of protesting and then eventually relenting and being like “yeah… okay… that’s pretty spot on.”
Not sure how I’d feel about someone writing ME. I write enough about myself and it’s already a pretty brutal portrayal.
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November 18, 2013 at 6:14 pm
We’re our own worst critics, aren’t we? I would think it would be pretty scary having someone write me as well, though I guess it would depend on who it was and what colour glasses they saw the world through. 😉
You’re lucky to have someone so excellent to be able to see themselves through your work and be okay with it. It’s the scary people I hesitate to write about. 😛
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November 18, 2013 at 4:59 pm
I’m a romantic, I always write about people I know or walk past on the street. I suppose I write them the way I wish they were, as well. They can write away if they want to write about me. Bring it! 😉 Great questions!
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November 18, 2013 at 6:09 pm
Yes, I’ve done that too. My fantasy of people rarely turns out to be anything anyone could possibly live up to however. 😛
That’s very cool of you to be okay with someone writing you.
Thank you very much for commenting. Great answers! 😀
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November 18, 2013 at 7:55 pm
Oh no, no one could. I must agree. 🙂
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November 18, 2013 at 4:02 pm
I have written about people I know, but I agree with Suzjones, that they probably wouldn’t even realize it. I heard somewhere that only a very small percentage of people in this world can recognize their faults. So, I think if you use different names and slightly difference circumstances, then the likelihood of them finding out that the story is based on their life is slim to none.
If someone were to write about me, I really don’t think I would mind; even if it was in a bad light. Their view of me may be right or it may not be. Either way I would ponder it, and if they’re right then I could use that to try to better myself.
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November 18, 2013 at 6:03 pm
That’s a great way to think of it – to use what they say to better yourself. Sometimes having things pointed out is really all we need, isn’t it? 🙂
That’s interesting information. I’ll take that into consideration, thanks 🙂
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November 18, 2013 at 3:45 pm
What Suz said to the not noticing. Unless you’re really specific. I’ve villainized people I actually get along with really well. I even told them. But my guy friends are usually like, “YES! Do I cut off anyone’s heads?” When they find out that’s the nicest thing they do, they get giddy. But most of the people in my stories are based on people I know, even if really I’m only taking one or two traits as the core. Generally my friends don’t pick out it’s them unless I say something.
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November 18, 2013 at 6:00 pm
Haha! Well, yes, if we’re talking good friends, then they tend to be much more tolerant to being portrayed. But you’re talking about nice people being turned into bad. Have you ever tried it with someone you know but don’t like, like an employer for instance?
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November 18, 2013 at 6:02 pm
Ex gf. Coolest villain ever. Employers are my parents 😦
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November 18, 2013 at 6:05 pm
… do you like your parents? haha
An ex-girlfriend I suppose would be an excellent villain, especially if you were looking for revenge. Poetic justice anyone? 😀
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November 18, 2013 at 6:31 pm
Ha. My parents are pretty awesome 😛 Who have you written about?
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November 18, 2013 at 6:40 pm
No one I know…. yet.
(We need a wicked grin avatar on here.)
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November 18, 2013 at 3:42 pm
Suzjones has a valid point. It’s amazing how we do not recognize ourselves. We have selective sight. Writing about what you know also encompasses your creation of worlds and people who do not exist in reality. Our imaginations produce them and we flesh them out with what we do know about human nature. It’s a great inward adventure.
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November 18, 2013 at 5:56 pm
It certainly is! I’ve ‘discovered’ many characters who have taken me places I could never have dreamed about, let alone dreamed up.
I suppose we do see ourselves differently than other people do. It’s like listening to yourself on a tape recorder. Your voice is never the same as you hear it in your own head.
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November 18, 2013 at 3:12 pm
You know if you wrote about someone that you don’t really like and portrayed their character traits in a bad light, they probably wouldn’t even recognise themselves. Most people overlook their bad qualities 😉
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November 18, 2013 at 3:22 pm
This is a very good point. I suppose it’s really all about staying completely away from real life events. Real life reactions to similar events though….that’s where it gets sticky. People do tend to relate to the way they’d react in any given situation.
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November 18, 2013 at 5:29 pm
I’m with suzjones. Also, everyone we know has redeeming characteristics, just as all written characters have flaws.
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November 18, 2013 at 6:11 pm
I’ve known people with very few ‘yeah, but’s, but you’re right. No one’s perfect 🙂
I think suz has the win today!
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November 18, 2013 at 6:41 pm
Yay for me 🙂 😉
Who knew that I could actually make sense on occasion?
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November 18, 2013 at 6:45 pm
Haha! You sell yourself short.
You’ll be the hero in my next novel 😀
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