I want people who read my fiction to fall in love with my characters. Not the bad guys necessarily, but at least the good guys. It took me a while to figure out how to do this, but in the end it always comes down to emotions. When my characters emote in a way that people can relate to, they feel a connection.
When I write, “Hank felt sad,” I know that my readers will look at the words on the page and think Hank is sad. Too bad for Hank. But if I write, “Hank cried,” people will read this and feel it, because it’s something that they do, or try not to do, when they are sad.
Emotions have a way of getting the best of us. They’re something we share, no matter our race, language, or beliefs. They are universal. And so when we see someone whose beliefs we don’t understand on the news, for instance, and they are crying, we feel their pain. At least those of us with compassion.
My best friend John told me a while ago that when we yawn when we see someone else yawn, it’s a sign that we’re not a psychopath. I know this has nothing to do with emotions, as such, but it does show our capacity for understanding what someone else is feeling. Empathy, compassion, sympathy… they’re all necessary for us to understand. And what makes good fiction worth reading as well.
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July 2, 2014 at 11:33 pm
You must watch a documentary. I no longer remember why you must watch it, but you should. It’s called I am.
Something in this post triggered me…
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July 4, 2014 at 11:58 am
Ok, I’ll look it up! Thanks for the recommendation. 🙂
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June 30, 2014 at 11:03 am
An interesting thing about yawning is that dogs don’t just yawn when they’re tired. They yawn when they’re thinking or trying to figure something out. But they’ll often yawn in response to a human yawn.
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June 30, 2014 at 9:43 pm
Interesting. Thanks for that, Rose. 🙂
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June 28, 2014 at 5:29 pm
Very good post Linda, I think you are right, it is important how you describe emotions in your book. The readers need to be able to use their imagination too, otherwise the book will feel bored to read.
The reader need to feel like an active reader to continue reading, just because it is so exiting.
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June 28, 2014 at 7:15 pm
There’s nothing better than a book you don’t want to put down. I hope mine will live up to that. 🙂
Thanks, Irene 😀
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June 28, 2014 at 1:29 pm
I yawned when I read the word “yawn” in your post. What does that make me?
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June 28, 2014 at 1:42 pm
A really sensitive guy. 😀
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June 28, 2014 at 12:59 pm
Works with cats and dogs too. If your pet is human-centric they’ll yawn as well.
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June 28, 2014 at 1:01 pm
That’s true – I’d forgotten about that. 🙂 Although come to think of it, I’ve met some seemingly psychopathic cats in my time too. 😛
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June 28, 2014 at 12:52 pm
Yes, agree.. The best stories show, and not tell. 🙂
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June 28, 2014 at 12:54 pm
I really think this is why. Thanks for your comment. 🙂
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June 28, 2014 at 12:57 pm
You’re welcome! Oops, 1 am here. Heading to dreamland 🙂 have a great day Linda!
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June 28, 2014 at 12:57 pm
Good night 🙂
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June 28, 2014 at 12:49 pm
I like the test for a psychopath. I now know how to avoid them on the subway in New York
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June 28, 2014 at 12:51 pm
Haha! Yeah, yawn a lot. 😉
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