Life in progress

Milestones

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Life’s milestones come in so many shapes and sizes. While many are like gigantic boulders others can seem like pebbles at first. But even a pebble can create a ripple.

Today my firstborn, my baby, who has somehow so quickly reached a height of almost six feet and eighteen years of age, moved out. A huge milestone for him and what I thought would be a smaller one for me.

But now I find myself thinking about how empty my house feels, even though my other two children are asleep in their beds. There’s no one to call down the laundry chute to say good-night to before I go to bed. I’ll turn off all the lights without worrying if he’ll trip over anything should he get up in the dark. The ripples have spread, just as my son has spread his wings and proverbially flown the coop. Just like that.

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Author: Linda G. Hill

There's a writer in here, clawing her way out.

4 thoughts on “Milestones

  1. Dark Dee's avatar

    It’s a mixed bag of sad. Happy for them to gain independence, and sad for the passage of time and what it inevitably brings. I don’t know if anything causes a ripple effect like children do. For a mother, it’s the alpha and omega of ripples.

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  2. everyday0467's avatar

    I’ll have the same experience pretty soon. Time flies and kids grow so fast!

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  3. good2begone's avatar

    I’m sure you have prepared him well! I have that to (not) look forward to in a few years. They for up way too fast.

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