We all have reasons why we write what we write. As I talked about in my blog post ‘To Pseud or not to Pseud’ there are just some things we need to get out of our systems, not all of which we believe our families and friends will appreciate reading or hearing about. But keeping our thoughts to ourselves isn’t just for fiction.
I was reading this post by my good friend at HarsH ReaLiTy and he brought up some excellent points about the dangers of writing non-fiction as well. To simply have an opinion can be not only unfavorable amongst those we know and love but also a very real danger to our well beings. Besides the things Jay (not his real name) mentions in his article such as the repercussions that can result in marital strife and the legal aspects of slander (whether intentional or not) there are also dangers that go from things as simple yet traumatic as internet fights and harassment towards both yourself and your family to the very real possibility of stalking and, Gods forbid, physical harm. Do we therefore stop writing? Hell no!
Hiding behind a pseudonym though can only solve half the problem. Since medieval times and possibly before (I’m no history buff) people have been writing and hiding their names to protect themselves. Our digital footprint, whilst being put into being to protect our children from pedophiles etc., makes it that much harder to conceal ourselves. So unless we go back to printing up leaflets upon which to get out our message we must choose carefully what we decide to share. While I don’t really want to get into the entire ‘freedom of speech’ debate, we still have to consider what our responsibilities, our boundaries and our level of comfort all are before we write publicly.
I read an interview with Sakurai Atsushi (get used to seeing that name on my blog) in which he said, “…I can’t really help who I am and what I create.” That touched me profoundly. The absolute need for a dedicated writer to produce and to expel his or her thoughts is irrepressible. I believe THAT, not whether or not we have or ever will be published is what makes us writers. How much of that should be restrained or hidden from sight or just concealed from being affiliated with our real identities is something we have to be able to judge for ourselves. May our judgement be sound.
May 17, 2013 at 12:35 pm
To each her/his own! Unless confessing to a crime, honesty of foible or thought should never be in any way harmful to one’s health – but, then, we live in a ‘new’ world today…
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May 17, 2013 at 2:25 pm
Things have certainly changed, and yet so much has stayed the same. There’s a lot to take into consideration that wouldn’t have been imaginable even 15-20 years ago. New world indeed.
Thanks for commenting 🙂
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May 16, 2013 at 10:19 pm
Well the above person would hate my site.
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May 16, 2013 at 10:37 pm
You know what they say… can’t please everybody. I think you do alright for yourself though, don’t you?
My friend Dori has put in her time and as she says, she gets paid to do what you and I only dream of thus far.
In the meantime let’s slog away together, shall we? 🙂 After all, I’m in this game for the same reason you are; to be recognized as a writer.
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May 16, 2013 at 10:41 pm
Or “unrecognized” writer. 😉
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May 16, 2013 at 10:44 pm
Ah, well that’s up to you Mr. Chair. hehe
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May 16, 2013 at 10:46 pm
LoL 😉
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