This post is part of Just Jot it January, and the prompt word, “celebrate,” is brought to us by Wendy. Check out her blog here!
It’s January—I may have mentioned that a time or two on my blog—which means it’s the month I celebrate my birthday.
And by celebrate, I mean I usually don’t.
Years ago, Alex would insist I buy myself a birthday cake so he could eat a sliver of it, but I don’t remember when the last time was.
My eldest son buys me dinner every year and has it delivered, then I sit at the kitchen table with a book and eat alone, like I do every other day of the year that’s not Christmas, New Year, Easter, or Thanksgiving.
It all seems a bit sad on the surface.
But do it enough years in a row, and it becomes tradition.
More of a tradition than a celebration.
I mean, seriously, who over the age of 21 wants to get older anyway, am I right?
This post really sounds like I’m whining, but I’m not.
#amhappy
This not really sad post is part of Just Jot it January! Want to join in? Just click here to get to the prompt and drop your link in the comments. It’s fun!
Thanks again to Wendy for the prompt!

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January 10, 2026 at 12:33 am
I agree with you Linda as long as you are happy life is good… It doesn’t matter how it looks to outsiders it’s how you feel that is important 💜💜 Happy Birthday 💜💜💜💜
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January 10, 2026 at 4:54 pm
Thanks, Willow. You’re quite right. 😀
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January 9, 2026 at 11:02 pm
When 76 it is a celebration each and every day.
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January 10, 2026 at 4:54 pm
Well yes, there is that for sure. I’m not quite there yet, but at almost 62, I’m feeling it already.
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January 9, 2026 at 7:25 pm
Happy birthday dear friend
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January 10, 2026 at 4:53 pm
Thanks, Sadje. 🙂
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January 9, 2026 at 5:09 pm
Wishing you a happy birthday! I’m glad you’re happy about this tradition. I still like my birthday even though it’s also stressful with family obligations.
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January 10, 2026 at 4:52 pm
Thanks, Astrid! It’s amazing how much extra there can be to do on your own birthday, isn’t it?
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January 10, 2026 at 5:44 pm
Well yes, that too, but also for me it’s the only time a year I see my parents and that’s always stressful.
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January 9, 2026 at 4:16 pm
If your life is full and happy then it’s not sad at all! 😘
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January 9, 2026 at 4:20 pm
Exactly. 😀
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