I was having a discussion with a friend on Facebook this morning about why a real human being can feel sadness over a fictional character. Another of his friends stated that it’s because the writer has done a good job. But is it really only that?
When I create a character, the first thing I come up with is a mental image. With that image comes nuances in dress, movement and speech patterns. From there, especially from the speech patterns, I begin to see where they live, how they grew up and what brought them to the place where I insert them into a story. With all this information they take on a life of their own and from there on in, I become more of a spectator in their world than the person directing them. I may know where they will eventually end up, but how they get there depends entirely on how their life has evolved to put them in my story in the first place.
I wish I could remember where I read it, (and if you know or even better if someone reading this was the one who said it first PLEASE take credit for it!) but something that affected me profoundly was the statement that, (paraphrasing) “if the characters I create become real, then I feel very bad for what I put them through in my story.” I do think the characters I create have an existence somewhere in the world. Call me crazy. But this very thing is what makes it possible to relate to them, and why a reader can be happy for them or grieve for them.
Getting back to my original point, I don’t entirely take credit for having done a good job when my readers feel for my characters. They tell my stories – I’m just along for the ride. They have, as I do, their own private thoughts, and their own private world.
April 29, 2013 at 3:17 pm
I think they are real…mine always stray far from my original plot and I just write furiously, trying to keep up! 😀
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April 29, 2013 at 3:36 pm
I think when that happens it makes for the best writing. There’s nothing more truthful in a story than when your character takes over. 🙂
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April 29, 2013 at 3:38 pm
I do so hope – hate to think I gave myself writer’s cramp for nothing! LOL
Sometimes, It’s a tad irritating – specially when they skipped the visit to the Hot Springs – I wanted to go! 🙂
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April 29, 2013 at 3:51 pm
It certainly can put a crimp in your plans. lol
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April 25, 2013 at 11:42 pm
When I began to write regularly (at about 12) I liked to believe that my characters lived in an alternate universe of some kind and that writers had a magical power that let them see into the universe. The images I would see of my characters were so vivid. And their pain was enough to bring me to tears.
I admit that now, many years later, I spend a lot more time planning my characters and so it feels a lot less like seeing into another universe. But, I still am amazed when I “just know” something happened in my characters life. And it works and makes one heck of a story.
I also think that we can relate to characters when their story in some way comes from our own experiences. We can write the emotions more powerfully because they are real. I am currently writing a book about a mother who takes drastic measures to save her child. I am a mom of two sweet little girls and so when I write about the love of a mother for her child that is very real and I think the truth of the emotions comes through even though the characters are made up.
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April 26, 2013 at 6:07 am
Isn’t that the best feeling, when something happens to your character and it comes as a complete surprise to you? I may do a post just about that. 🙂
There comes a point though when our own experiences leave off and we have to be able to imagine what our characters are going through. That’s when the fact that our characters are ‘real’ is essential. For instance, I doubt Stephen King knows what it feels like to kill someone, but he does a great job of making us believe his characters are doing it.
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April 25, 2013 at 10:12 pm
So true. I remember the author of “Memoirs of a Geisha” said in an interview that people often asked him “But is Sayuri still alive?” and he was like, “Uh… I don’t know how to answer that.” I love the idea that the reader’s suspension of disbelief is so strong as to illicit such a question.
Also, in a completely unrelated thought nugget, the Egyptians and Mesopotamians created scriptures to explain the “existence” of fictional characters, basically stating that characters do “live” and “exist” on a certain plane. Kinda neat.
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April 25, 2013 at 10:23 pm
Now that’s interesting – the Egyptian/Mesopotamian belief! I’ll have to look into that. I’m not surprised about ‘Memoirs’. She was such a well-written, well rounded character.
Thanks for the comment! 🙂
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April 25, 2013 at 5:34 pm
Well, wouldn’t it be true in some way that our characters ARE real, even though they don’t exist as physical beings? What I mean is, our characters — if they are to reach anyone’s heart — must be made up of real human emotion and that in itself IS real. There’s nothing there if there’s nothing to relate to, and so, if we create ‘great’ characters, it’s because they either reflect our deepest feelings or repel them which causes us to seek for the opposite, which is STILL a way into emotion, it’s just our own.
I also think there’s probably no formula for how any writer relates to or sympathizes with a character they create — it’s gotta be an individual response. Also, as far as feeling bad for what we put them through — well, thems the breaks, right? Because there would be no story if we didn’t put ’em through shit. Protag, antag and conflict. The holy trinity.
It’s such a special world we writers live in…to create such deep, intense creations. Once we’re on the runway, they take flight on their own — what a phenomenon! No one will ever know that feeling, the feeling of suddenly knowing your creation is alive and that, at some point, it tells YOU what to do.
I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(good, good, thoughtful post.)
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April 25, 2013 at 6:12 pm
Said it all! Thank you my dear. 🙂
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April 25, 2013 at 3:24 pm
“If the writer doesn’t cry, the reader doesn’t cry.”
Sometimes it’s the test of an author, I think – whether they can kill off/torment the characters they have so lovingly breathed to life. You know well that the story will be more powerful for putting them through great trials, but you just can’t stand to see them suffer…! Some of my characters are more ‘real’ than ‘real’ people I know 🙂
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April 25, 2013 at 3:32 pm
I know, right? Mine too. Great quote. 🙂
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April 25, 2013 at 3:20 pm
Couldn’t have written that better myself
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April 25, 2013 at 3:20 pm
Thank you 🙂
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