Originally posted at A Good Blog Is Hard To Find Apologies if this is a repeat post.
I consider myself a fairly observant person. I’m certainly aware of what works and what doesn’t, most of the time. It’s taken me a year on WordPress however, to figure out a few things concerning how to go about getting followers, and how to keep them engaged.
Some of my recent realisations came about as a result of Opinionated Man’s posts and the comments we’ve shared between us, and also because of my struggle to get people to read and follow my fiction blog. It’s here: http://lindaghillfiction.wordpress.com/ by the way, in case you’re interested.
I think half the key to building a following on WordPress is in the comments themselves. Commenting will let people know you’re invested in what you write, and that you care what people think about what you write. It’s what separates your blog from other media – newspapers and the like – which give little chance to allow the reader to express his or her thoughts on the topic. So what is the other half?
This is where I’ve picked up what I think is the problem I’m having with my fiction blog. It’s the content. Not that my fiction is necessarily bad, mind you, (go to http://lindaghillfiction.wordpress.com/ to decide for yourself) but unless you’re looking to read fiction, you’re not going to look up that particular blog.
I was advised when I first began at WordPress to decide on a theme for my blog. I started out, nevertheless, with a mish-mash of parenting, articles about life in general, as well as fiction and poetry. I didn’t notice much of a difference in who followed my blog after I started my fiction blog (at http://lindaghillfiction.wordpress.com/ ), but even though I let people know it existed, people rarely visited it. The realisation I’ve come to is that my fiction is probably not going to change anyone’s life.
When I write about the trials and tribulations of parenting, particularly two special needs children, people want to know what I’ve learned. When I talk about being part of the sandwich generation, people out there can relate. My readers come to me because they’re hoping to share something. They’re hoping they may be able to offer suggestions (the comments again) or they’re looking to find a fellow sufferer in me, to possibly allow themselves to feel less alone.
My point in all this is, when I blog, I have an audience. Who my audience is will depend on what I write. If I blog about something no one can relate to, I can’t expect to have anyone follow me; I can’t expect comments, and comments are what keep people engaged.
My fiction blog? It’s another kettle of fish altogether. Fiction, without a cover blurb, is an unknown entity until people begin to read it. On top of that, I probably could have chosen a better title. I’ve learned that a blog’s moniker can seriously narrow an audience. A title like “Dark Fiction of the Occult” (not mine) isn’t going to catch the attention of people looking for chicklit. The title on my blog doesn’t say anything about fiction whatsoever. I’m currently in the middle of posting a series (which is really great – you should go read it at http://lindaghillfiction.wordpress.com/ ) but as soon as it’s finished I will perform a complete revamp. As it is, it could easily be mistaken as a foodie site.
Go ahead and learn from my mistake. I’m humble enough. But most of all encourage comments and write in a way that relates to your audience. If you want followers, don’t talk about yourself in a way that narrows your post so much that it can only possibly relate to you.
WordPress is a wonderful, interactive site if you want it to be. If you want followers, give them something they want to follow – and for goodness sakes, follow them back and comment on their sites too!
(Note: All mentions of my fiction blog in this post are strictly in the interest of humour. In no way was this post written in order to promote http://lindaghillfiction.wordpress.com/ . Thank you for reading.)
Linda
February 10, 2014 at 2:41 pm
Linda there are a lot of ways to get followers and keep followers, the only ways I think are acceptable are community and good content. Pandering to the lowest common denominator and attacking other bloggers will bring in views this is not good blogging it’s feeding negativity. Your Promoting Opinionated Man in this post is shining the light on someone that engages in these practices among other which are none to savory and as someone that suffers from depression I will tell you I find he exploits the condition, he has done the fake follow without visiting blogs, he is not sincere and he is not honest. He is a circus and a clown. Promoting someone that attacks other bloggers is not in the interest of the community you profess to be a part of… in fact you are introducing into the community someone who has attacked many bloggers and then cries foul and gets his sycophants to join in… He is the Tar Sands of the Blogosphere and you are acting as Keystone to deliver his toxic sludge to others… shame…
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February 10, 2014 at 3:12 pm
And are you not attacking me on my own blog? I’m sorry for your depression, but it is not up to you to help me decide who I should and shouldn’t be friends with. I appreciate that you have a strong opinion towards OM but I won’t allow you to perpetuate your disagreement with him on my site. Not only does it disturb the peace here, it does no good for you, personally, in my opinion, to hold on to your anger.
For the record, I disagree with you. I have seen nothing in OM’s personality, nor his blogging practices, that have shown anything but kindness, compassion, and helpfulness to new bloggers. Your disagreement notwithstanding – which from my perspective could have been put down to a misunderstanding had things not escalated.
This is MY opinion, MY observances, and MY blog.
If you disagree, keep it to yourself or agree to disagree. If you will do neither, then kindly stay the fuck off my site.
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February 10, 2014 at 3:28 pm
yes well Linda it’s my community too… and you do ask for opinions, or are you like OM too in that there is only one Opinion… What was wanting to meet me all about anyway. you were pretty vigorous to do that last summer… was that something you did just to get a follower… Pretending to be peoples friends is a despicable act… and don’t worry you like OM will receive no more of my views… nor the support I have shown you over the last six month… I don’t care what you blog about… but when you introduce toxicity to the community I will say something. I will do my best to protect others from him… and I didn’t attack you Linda I asked you as simple question… you did ask for feedback did you not… or is that only for those that want to suck up to your opinion…
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February 10, 2014 at 3:31 pm
You are baiting me and I am ignoring you. I hope others follow suit.
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February 10, 2014 at 1:56 am
Good advice, especially regarding the comments. And I *was* chuckling by the third time you posted your fiction link — now I’ll head over there and check it out!
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February 10, 2014 at 1:53 pm
Thanks very much! I’m glad I gave you a laugh 😀
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February 9, 2014 at 5:56 pm
People forget I think that being social is the only way to make friends 😉
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February 9, 2014 at 8:36 pm
Very true, my dear. 🙂
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February 9, 2014 at 8:39 pm
Tea, coffee or me? 😛
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February 9, 2014 at 8:43 pm
You, of course. 🙂
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February 9, 2014 at 8:45 pm
You’re too nice 🙂
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February 9, 2014 at 8:47 pm
😀 I have to be honest, coffee is a close second. 😉
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February 9, 2014 at 8:54 pm
I can’t move properly or think without it in the morning, in fact I’m going to make one now – how do you have it?
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February 9, 2014 at 9:16 pm
Make mine just a little milk, no sugar, please. 🙂 And you?
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February 9, 2014 at 9:59 pm
Black with one 🙂
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February 9, 2014 at 3:32 pm
Great advice! I had no idea you had a fiction blog as well…
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February 9, 2014 at 8:19 pm
Thanks very much, and thanks for following my fiction blog! 😀
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February 9, 2014 at 2:51 pm
I have written a few articles that have been non fiction, I never think mine are interesting enough!
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February 9, 2014 at 8:18 pm
Of course they are! It’s always interesting to hear the voice behind the poetry, I think. 😀
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February 9, 2014 at 2:32 pm
An interest posting, Linda, with some good thoughts. You’re more successful than me in “catching” people’s attention, but to be “gently ruthless”, your blog page heading here has SEVEN links to seven different pages. I used to have four links to other pages on my page, and I wiped two of them, leaving only the ABOUT as the second. The number of followers shot up. I don’t think people can be bothered (or interested) in clicking on other peoples links. I think we readers prefer a page that is about the one thing, and not a hotchpotch of links and different things. To be fair, I’ve rarely clicked on your fiction page, because my “follow” link takes me to this page here (and not to the fiction page). Hope you’re not offended! Bruce
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February 9, 2014 at 7:07 pm
I hadn’t thought of that, actually, but it’s true – unless I’m missing something, I think it’s rare that anyone clicks on my headings. They’re categories, by the way. So if you click on “On Writing” for instance, you’ll get only the articles I’ve written on that subject – but it’s still what I’ve written here on my blog. It’s not elsewhere.
I’m never ever offended by constructive criticism, Bruce. Thanks very much. I’ll take this into consideration next time I revamp my blogs. 😀
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February 9, 2014 at 12:45 pm
Wonderful post, Linda. I think it’s commendable that you give back to the WordPress community with posts such as these.
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February 9, 2014 at 7:02 pm
Thank you, Nav. We’re all in this together, right? 😀
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February 9, 2014 at 12:20 pm
I follow many blogs. Some include fiction. I read those blogs less. The blogs I read the most are those personal ones.
I agree with the gentleman above who said we’re not always in the mood to read fiction. The fiction blogs I am least likely to read are the ones where words are doled out daily, in a continuing way. Short posts, yes, I love short fiction, but I’m not about to read a novella by being fed 2500 words every other day. I can’t maintain focus.
I really enjoy reading about the process of writing and blogging as well.
I, too, suffer from WordPress errors, like how I must ask my husband how many shares I’ve gotten, because I can’t see them, but he can. My Facebook page no longer shows up, and neither does my Twitter feed. I have no idea why. I’ve fiddled with it all, and I’m over it.
Also, some of the people I’m following don’t always show up in my reader, so I get surprised by an email, only to find I’ve missed four posts in a week. Glitches are bitches.
I enjoy your blog(s).
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February 9, 2014 at 7:01 pm
I tend towards the shorter fiction as well. I have limited time to read, so to spend even ten minutes on one post is rare for me. And ugh! with the glitches.
….Ugh!
😉
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February 9, 2014 at 12:04 pm
linda – i agree with all of this and have only recently come to read your fiction post. like aussa, i think it would be very challenging to manage two blogs, so kudos to you, and keep writing. we are reading ) beth
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February 9, 2014 at 6:55 pm
Thanks very much, ksbeth. 🙂 I’m doing my best to keep up, but it is a lot of work.
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February 9, 2014 at 11:54 am
Couldn’t agree more with pretty much everything you just said. Also– can’t imagine keeping up with multiple blogs, especially at the rate in which you post!!
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February 9, 2014 at 6:53 pm
I don’t think I post enough! Thanks, Aussa. 🙂
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February 9, 2014 at 11:34 am
I think it’s because people like to read about the journey of a writer, sharing of personal posts rather than just being in the mood to read fiction. I must admit I don’t tend to read fiction blogs. I prefer to read about writers going through the process. 🙂
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February 9, 2014 at 11:39 am
Very interesting. I probably read a lot more articles about fiction than I do fiction itself as well.
Thanks very much for commenting and sharing, Pete, 😀
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February 9, 2014 at 11:29 am
hmmmm – what was the name of your fiction blog again? http://lindaghillfiction.wordpress.com/ wasn’t it? 😛
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February 9, 2014 at 11:30 am
How did you guess!?!? That’s amazing!
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February 9, 2014 at 11:35 am
I think I read it somewhere recently, can’t remember where though, terrible memory. 😀
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February 9, 2014 at 11:41 am
Hmmm… maybe I should mention my fiction blog ( at http://lindaghillfiction.wordpress.com/ ) more often.
😀
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February 9, 2014 at 12:00 pm
It would certainly help old Ape’s like me ave short memor – Oh look – a bunny rabbit! LOL 😀
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February 9, 2014 at 6:53 pm
Haha! 🙂
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February 9, 2014 at 11:17 am
Well this brought a smile to my face! I, for one, am enjoying your fiction – although I did only find a link from your ‘main’ site fairly recently. Keep writing, and take care, Chris.
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February 9, 2014 at 11:24 am
Thank you very much, Chris, both for the lovely compliment and for your support. 😀
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February 9, 2014 at 11:13 am
I think this is good advice. I don’t know whether I would change my blog, nonetheless. I blog to express ideas as they occur to me and to react to current events and share my analyses on issues that are important to me. I also relate some of my personal history in the form of anecdotes that convey some meaning (at least I think so). I want to interact with the WP community, whom I prefer to those I have found on other social media sites, but I didn’t start the blog with the idea that I should attract a huge audience. I think of the followers as friends, more than anything else and I am not sure I have earned thousands of friends.
One way to attract an audience is to be acerbic, critical, cynical, for example. Many of the blogs with thousands of followers attract them by appealing to the lowest sentiments. If that is the direct path to acclaim, I will not likely put my foot on it.
Thought provoking post, Linda. Thank you.
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February 9, 2014 at 11:23 am
I agree – there are many out there whose claim to fame is how loudly they can complain. They tend to get as much negative attention as positive – I wouldn’t want to go there either. It’s been proven possible to attract positive attention however, by offering to help without expecting anything in return. There’s a lot to be said for remaining not only true to oneself, but positive at the same time.
Thought provoking comment, Beth. 😉 Thank you.
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February 9, 2014 at 9:38 pm
I definitely appeal to the lowest sentiments.
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February 9, 2014 at 9:45 pm
Oh I don’t think so… Your posts are often very thought-provoking.
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February 9, 2014 at 11:13 am
My biggest complaint about WP isn’t about followers, it is that WP keeps acting up and I don’t always get the “likes” (at least not on my app) so keeping up and keeping track can be very difficult. Plus it is hard to interact with two different blogs without it all coming from the primary blog.
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February 9, 2014 at 11:17 am
I hear ya. On my “My Blog” page I currently have four that I try to keep up with. It’s a lot of work – but it’s worth it.
As far is WP’s inconsistencies go, it’s something we all have to put up with. What’s the alternative?
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