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Communication is Fragile

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I had a dream last night in which I traveled back in time, to the ’70s I believe, to speak to high school girls about what it would be like, in the future, to be able to communicate from anywhere. You’d think I’d have had a cell phone in my hand. But that’s not what I had.

In my dream I was carrying a piece of paper. It was like a receipt and it had words and numbers written on it. Strangely enough I remember having to go to a payphone to use it… but what purpose the paper served is beyond me. It was a dream.

When I woke up, however, it left me wondering about the fragility of communication. The paper was nothing but symbolic. What if I lost it? (The piece of paper or the ability to communicate – you decide.) What if I suddenly couldn’t read it because it got damaged? How much did it cost to obtain it? It was a receipt, after all.

Then I started thinking, what if I had five minutes to tell everyone I loved everything I needed to tell them? Could I be succinct? I think that’s the one positive thing the language of texting has provided us with… a shorthand. And it’s such a personal thing as well. Only if I’m in a hurry will I spell ‘you,’ ‘u,’ and everyone close to me knows this, and so I am communicating two things at once.

But what if we could all speak the way the great authors write? To be able to communicate a feeling – ‘All the world’s a stage…’ What if stuff like that just rolled off our tongues as easily as we wrote it? What if we could put real body language and facial expressions into our emails? Speaking from the perspective of someone who actually CAN communicate in two languages simultaneously (spoken English and American Sign Language), it would be wonderful indeed.

And yet do I feel as though, if I had five minutes left in this world to say everything I wanted to, I’m afraid I’d be at a loss for words.

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Author: Linda G. Hill

There's a writer in here, clawing her way out.

25 thoughts on “Communication is Fragile

  1. LAMarcom's avatar

    You put down many things to think about. And you did it succinctly too.
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    Great post Linda.

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  2. D.G.Kaye's avatar

    Always remember to say ‘I love you’, and the rest will be understood in those moments under pressure when our tongues get tied and we forget all else we wanted to say.

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  3. Susan Irene Fox's avatar

    Yep, I think Nav hit the nail on the head. Ultimately, what’s more important than, “I love you” ?

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  4. dF's avatar

    I would -hope- that I could feel like it was ‘a good day to die’ and that I was ready to go with no regrets. I agree with the comments ahead of mine but I like theenglishprofessoratlarge’s response most of all — to let the people I was leaving know I appreciated them.

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  5. mewhoami's avatar

    I second what Navigator said. “I love you” says it all.

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  6. navigator1965's avatar

    What would you REALLY need to say, other than “I love you?”

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  7. Charles Yallowitz's avatar

    I wonder if the great authors sought to be seen as great communicators or simply wrote their stories. As I get older, I see how some people are natural communicators and others need to work at it. There’s still a ‘skill’ behind it because there are those who are so caught up in ‘tech speak’ that a face-to-face conversation is awkward.

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    • Linda G. Hill's avatar

      There are certainly some conversations that one can only have with someone else who understands the ‘language,’ most definitely. There’s something to be said for simplicity.

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  8. http://theenglishprofessoratlarge.com's avatar

    I would keep it simple and direct. “Thank you for being in my life. I love you.” That would about cover the basics.

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  9. Paul Davis's avatar

    Good bye.

    That would be it. Then I’d write for the final moments. I’m glad people don’t speak like writers write. We’d have no hope for a job 😉

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