So soon on the heels of the demise of the WordPress site “Mindful Digressions,” hosted by the amazing Doobster, comes the closure of HarsH ReaLiTy, brainchild of our beloved Opinionated Man, Jason Chandler Cushman.
I met Jason shortly after I started writing here on Life in Progress – I commented on one of his posts and was flabbergasted when he responded. From that day forward I knew what it took to gain a following, and quickly learned that there is a community at WordPress – one that is supportive, caring, and friendly. I thought about deleting my post “Save HarsH ReaLiTy,” but I think I’ll keep it open – it illustrates more than anything I’ve seen so far what a fantastic place we have here. You can view it here: https://lindaghill.com/2015/01/14/save-harsh-reality/ Most of all, read the comments. They are inspiring and heartwarming both.
Belinda at Idiot Writing – https://idiotwriting.wordpress.com/ – and I received an email:
If you have the chance please let people know that HarsH ReaLiTy is closed and is set to private until it can be deleted. I wish everyone the best and appreciate the connections I made over the past two years.
Jason
-OM
He, like Doobster, is closing his site for personal reasons. Here is Belinda’s post: https://idiotwriting.wordpress.com/2015/06/04/all-the-best-in-a-harsh-reality/
For all the lessons you taught us, for all the support you gave us with re-blogs, challenges, and posts to share our own sites, for all the lively and entertaining discussions, I wish to say thank you, Cush. It was a real pleasure to get to know you. Your footprints in the sand (or snow) of my memory will remain.
In the spirit of OM’s mission on WordPress, please feel free to leave your tribute to Jason in the comments, or a link to your own post about him and what he meant to you. And check out each other’s sites. Let’s make Jason proud of what he accomplished!
As we remember all the wonderful, humorous articles and lists, the amusing one-liners, the controversial opinion pieces, and the loving photos of his family, let us lift a glass to our friend.
Cheers, Jason! May you and your beautiful family live a long and prosperous life!
June 5, 2015 at 8:31 am
Thank you for letting us know. I have just read everyone’s comments before mine and feel the same sadness and vacancy in my reader feed. I was wondering if he had dropped me (lol like I’m big time or something haha) I wish you all the best OM, thanks for all your help and support if you read this, you are the first blogger to have made me feel welcome on WordPress. Your wit and wisdom will be missed.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:12 am
The only people I drop are the Ads for viagra. Because honestly… I don’t need it. 🙂 🙂 🙂
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June 5, 2015 at 7:43 am
I had hoped he would resolve the ongoing situation and return however I notice he also seems to have either removed his facebook or altered his settings as he had added me on there as a friend and has since disappeared so it maybe that things have progressed to a point where it has been necessary to remove his online presence completely to protect his family, I can only hope he and his family are all safe and well and maybe he will read this and know people wish the best for him even if we will miss his presence.
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June 5, 2015 at 7:44 am
I am also grateful to him that because of his reblogs I found your blog 😀
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July 1, 2015 at 2:14 am
My FB is back. I had no quick way to remove the images of my family so I did the next possible thing. Fortunately it wasn’t permanent. 😉
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June 5, 2015 at 7:37 am
it’s such a shame. he will be missed.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:15 am
HE appreciate that bud. Thanks. 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 2:15 am
Appreciates*!!! Argh… stupid Korean fingers…
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July 1, 2015 at 5:03 am
I hate it when I do that. stupid brain.
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June 5, 2015 at 7:33 am
Wow! I know I haven’t received posts lately, but thought he was just on hiatus with his family. I know WP has been less than kind to him, but I know my life will be truly less for his absence. If you read this, Jason, know that you are loved.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:16 am
I don’t DO hiatuses… lol. 😉
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June 5, 2015 at 6:29 am
I only knew him a week. I left a couple comments. Then he reblogged one of my posts and a I gained as many followers that day as I did the whole month before. For this, I’ll always be thankful. I wish I would had a chance to read more of his stuff. His kind of humor sounds much like my own!
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July 1, 2015 at 2:17 am
No thanks is ever necessary for that. I do thank you for the kind words man and the post. 🙂
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June 5, 2015 at 6:13 am
Reblogged this on I Read Encyclopedias for Fun and commented:
When I saw this in my reader, I was surprised, yet not surprised. Jason Cushman, aka Opinionated Man, has closed down his blog, HarsH ReaLiTy. I read frequently, but didn’t comment as much as I should have. But when I did, he always responded, and he did so with both a wonderful sense of humour and tons of helpfulness. You see, he was actually quite a generous person, helping out other bloggers become better bloggers. Many people loved his blog, and there were those who hated it. Whatever his reasons are for closing down his blog, I wish him luck. I hope to see him around the blogosphere again. Please read what Linda G. Hill has said about him. Lots of people have commented there.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:17 am
Thank you for the kind words and for sharing this post. That means a lot man and I hope all is well! 🙂
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July 2, 2015 at 4:43 am
You’re welcome. And I’m glad to see you’re still around 🙂 Thanks for the comment!
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July 2, 2015 at 9:38 am
🙂
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June 5, 2015 at 5:49 am
Not happy to hear this. Will definitely miss him. I’m not surprised, though. The signs have been there for quite some time that he’d eventually close his blog.
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June 5, 2015 at 5:07 am
He’s been with me since the beginning of my blog- and was the one person that I could really enjoy out quick one lines back and forth with perfect humour. Supportive emails not excluding. Find your next summit, Jason!!!!! xoxoxoxoxo
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July 1, 2015 at 2:18 am
I actually did find a summit, but no one told me that a “summit” is actually a tall ass mountain. I got tired a quarter of the way up…
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July 1, 2015 at 4:10 am
Many have died on the Summit…smart ones realize they’re tired and call it a day before getting there 😉
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June 5, 2015 at 4:53 am
I am unsurprised but devastated. Jason, I found to be one of the most generous, supportive human beings I have ever come across. Here is my tribute to Jason – from some time ago http://fionasfavourites.com/2015/04/06/cape-towns-burning/
I do hope that as I say there, that the phoenix does rise again. It’s hard to keep a good man down.
And I miss Doobster. I went looking for him and sent a request to view his site, but he didn’t reply – and there I was thinking that I’d been commenting too much (silly me!). Linda, please give him my best if you are in touch with him.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:19 am
Yes, we all miss Doobster. He was good peoples. 🙂
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June 5, 2015 at 4:39 am
Thank you for sharing this sad news. Jason is a great and always helpful friend. He will be missed so very much. I really hope this is not the monster of a troll, who forced him to close down.
Jason, I wish you all the best for both you and your beautiful family. I hope that you will consider to come back, when you feeel for that – one day… 😉
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July 1, 2015 at 2:19 am
We do what we must Irene. Thanks for the kind words and the support here. 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 2:31 am
You are welcome Jason and you are right. We just miss you in here 😉
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July 1, 2015 at 2:32 am
It is good to be posting again Irene. 🙂
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June 5, 2015 at 4:16 am
This is sad news indeed. He will be sadly missed in WP, although I hadn’t been following him that long, he had been following me. He gave support and ideas to everyone. I wish him well.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:20 am
Thank you for the kind, supportive words. I appreciate you taking the time to do that.
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June 5, 2015 at 3:15 am
One of the first blogs I saw here at WordPress. Only good thoughts coming your way from this corner Jason. And I hope… all is well. :O)
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July 1, 2015 at 2:20 am
All is finally well in the night. Thank you for your supportive comment! I appreciate it! 🙂
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July 2, 2015 at 12:38 am
My pleasure, be well. :O)
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June 5, 2015 at 3:05 am
As I joined Word Press and tried to learn about blogging vs. writing, I studied various blogs – some casual others too distant and proper. That’s when I observed that OM is a real blogger, not only that he has great command over language but he’s caring and connected to one and all within the blogging community. Genuine human being. Wish him and his family all the best!
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July 1, 2015 at 2:21 am
You are very kind and I appreciate that you viewed me and my blog in that way. Thank you! 🙂
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June 5, 2015 at 2:31 am
This sucks, I learned so much about blogging by reading his stuff, he also let me do guest posts and reblogged for me quite a bit. I thought he had one of the best blogs out there and I am certainly gonna miss hearing from our little ninja/wizard/squirrel hating blogger buddy.
Bye Cush I really hope this is a see ya later and not a goodbye for good.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:22 am
It worked out and ended up being a “see ya later.” I am happy about that and hope I have left the drama behind me. Thank you for the kind words as always! 🙂
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June 5, 2015 at 2:25 am
Sad 😦
He was very helpful, even though you never knew what he would say next 😉
I am going to miss him………
I wish him the very best wherever he goes next.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:23 am
Heh it is true. I really will say anything. My wife keeps telling me to cut that out. 😉
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July 1, 2015 at 3:53 am
Glad the element of surprise has finally returned to keep us all on our toes 😉
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June 5, 2015 at 2:20 am
Oh Linda!!! That is indeed a very sad news. I was wondering what happened when I was away on my vacation. I come back to see his posts for a day and then he vanished. I wish him and his family all the very best in life. He will be missed 😦
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July 1, 2015 at 2:23 am
Thank you for the kind words of support here KG! I hope all is well with you. -OM
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July 1, 2015 at 2:48 am
Hey OM 🙂
I am so glad to see you again. Welcome back!
I am taking things a bit slow at the blogging front, as of now. But otherwise things are going good. Thank you 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 2:49 am
Slow is the way to go! I am doing the same. 🙂
Well at least by my standard.
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June 5, 2015 at 1:56 am
I’m sad…I can’t believe he close down his blog. He was a incredible I will miss his daily post 😢
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July 1, 2015 at 2:24 am
You are too kind! Thank you for taking the time to leave a supportive comment here!
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June 5, 2015 at 1:45 am
Reblogged this on A Momma's View and commented:
What a shame… I hope Jason is fine. Shame to lose him…
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July 1, 2015 at 2:24 am
I hear I am fine. My state of mind is a bit shaky though… I’ll admit… 😉
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June 5, 2015 at 1:38 am
Reblogged this on Jorda's Blog and commented:
Saddened by this news. Harsh Reality was one of the first blogs I followed when I began here at WordPress. I was hoping this absence was on a temporary thing but apparently it is not. Maybe one day we will be blessed with the return of OM but if not, I am glad to have been able to know of him and of Harsh Reality. Thanks for everything you have done for all us bloggers and for bringing so many of us together with your words.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:25 am
I appreciate your kind words and thanks for the reboot as well of this post! 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 2:30 am
No problem! Glad to have you back! : )
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July 1, 2015 at 2:31 am
It is good to be back. 🙂
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June 5, 2015 at 1:33 am
I don’t know? It feels like that somebody died? First the Mindful Mindful Digressions then OM? It’s because of him we, Buddha9 and me got viewers stopping by. Damn.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:25 am
And I am glad to have met you both! 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 7:18 am
🙂
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June 5, 2015 at 1:13 am
Reblogged this on ButchCountry67 and commented:
Wordpress Lost another great Blogger, OM aka Opinionated Man shut down his blog and has left for personal reasons , it is truly a sad event, he has helped countless thousands get their blogs up and running, and went to great lengths to get bloggers to interact and explore each other, many connections were made possible thanks to OM, connections that may have otherwise never happened, he will be greatly missed by many, I am deeply saddened by his departure from wordpress, but do understand that family must always come first. Best Wishes wherever you are Jason, may you have a happy and healthy life and great success in all that you do.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:27 am
Thank you for the kind words bud. I appreciate your time in doing this. 🙂
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June 5, 2015 at 12:55 am
So sorry to see Jason go. He really helped me a lot when I switched over to my new blog. I recently acquired my first troll and gave him a good ole fashioned smack down… in my zen way 🙂 but I thought of Jason as I politely told the troll to go away. Thank you for posting this, Linda.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:27 am
No light for those not right. Give the troll hell. 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 2:39 am
Always! Glad to see you about Jason 🙂
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June 5, 2015 at 12:50 am
Reblogged this on ladyleemanila and commented:
So sad to see Jason Chandler Cushman go. Here’s to say thanks to you – Opinionated Man and Harsh Reality…..Good luck our friend and hope to see you again…
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July 1, 2015 at 2:28 am
Thank you for your supportive words here! I appreciate it and the reboot as well! 🙂
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June 5, 2015 at 12:44 am
Reblogged this on The Rattling Bones and commented:
Thank you, Linda for putting this up. So sad to see Jason go… Best wishes were ever you are ~OM~ you will be missed
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June 4, 2015 at 11:59 pm
Thanks for letting us know, Linda! I was wondering why it went so quiet with OM. He will be missed! All the best to you, Jason!
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July 1, 2015 at 2:28 am
Thank you Veronica for your kind words of support! 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 9:09 am
Glad to see you back! 😄
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June 4, 2015 at 11:10 pm
Oh nooooo. I’m sad. He helped me a lot when I was new here. Always willing to help! I’ll miss him.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:29 am
🙂 Thanks Laura! All is now well with the night.
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July 1, 2015 at 10:42 am
Hey! Welcome back. 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 10:57 pm
interesting…I can’t bring up this post to read it. tried twice.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:30 am
I appreciate you trying to check out the post Karyn! 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 10:34 pm
Oh man. He was such a great blogger. I always looked forward to reading what he had to say. Sometimes funny, sometimes serious, but always clever. Like you, I too was amazed when I would leave a simple comment and he would take the time to respond to me. Considering he could get hundreds of comments on a single blog post, that’s pretty impressive and shows how much he cared about supporting others and letting them know that there were heard. R.I.P. to the great OM!
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July 1, 2015 at 2:31 am
You are too kind and it is never “trouble” to respond to those that take the time to respond back. Thanks for your supportive words here! 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 8:47 pm
*starts crying* Oh Jason… I can’t believe it. All right I will stop bawling.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:32 am
You are getting Linda’s carpet all wet! 😉
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June 4, 2015 at 7:27 pm
I too am sorry to hear this and previously sent my goodbyes and well-wishes to Jason when I noticed his absence in my mailbox. We all owe him a debt of gratitude for his warm welcome on WP and his many valuable tips on how to be a good community member. Jason, I miss you already!
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June 4, 2015 at 7:48 pm
Yeah, me too, Beth. He really pulled this place together for a lot of people.
Thanks for your comment. 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 2:37 am
None of you owe me a thing. If anything I owe people for taking this long to say thank you. 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 4:42 pm
Really sorry to read this. He was the hardest working blogger I’d ever come across. I’ve enjoyed all he created, the rows and the fun. He was a very generous blogger and taught so many, including myself, so much. I’d put money on him re inventing himself in time to come, and I look forward to that day.
As long as he is happy.
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June 4, 2015 at 5:48 pm
That’s the main thing, isn’t it? As long as he’s happy. I have to believe he’ll pop up again one day. I do hope it’s on WordPress.
Thanks for your comment, Tric. 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 2:38 am
You are too kind tric. I appreciate the supportive comment. I finally got the monkey off my back I believe. 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 4:35 pm
Very sad to hear this. Thank you for informing us all. I’m glad to see so many people shared this appreciation for OM and are making these kind posts about him. He was awesome and I’ve found that the community around him is too. I’m glad to see everyone reacting so positively.
As a still new blogger, he really hooked me into it, showing how fun and awesome it can be and I appreciate his views and how helpful he was to me and others. It’s something I would like to emulate as I develop my own blog.
I’m glad to see he’s left a legacy here with all these great bloggers that I have been meeting through him.
Rest In Peace Opinionated Man.
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June 4, 2015 at 4:37 pm
Oh, and here’s the link to the post I made about him (although it doesn’t feel appropriate here honestly…) https://wildero64.wordpress.com/2015/05/25/assault/
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June 4, 2015 at 5:37 pm
The positivity is encouraging, isn’t it? I wish you luck in emulating Jason – them’s pretty big shoes to fill! 😀 Thanks so much for your comment and for the link, Wil. 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 6:52 pm
No problem and thank you! It is very encouraging. Not trying to fill his shoes lol, we’re definitely different people but in my own way I will strive to emulate the things I loved about him and his blog 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 7:19 pm
It’s great to have someone to emulate. I have done the same, in my own way. 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 2:41 am
I too appreciate the kind words of support here. Thanks for the post as well man! I hope everything is going ok. 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 4:29 pm
This post is now a tribute to OM/Jason and his HarsH ReaLiTy. Sad that he have met the same destiny in an e-way, as the man I thought of when I wrote the post. But I still believe in a e-reborned OM 🙂
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https://fargaregardsanna.wordpress.com/2015/06/04/first-blogger-ever/
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June 4, 2015 at 5:33 pm
Thanks very much for your link, Anna. 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 11:53 pm
You’re welcome 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 2:41 am
And how that post does spin so well! Someone was listening to me. 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 4:28 pm
I’m not one to second guess another’s reason for doing what ever they choose to do. We may never know why Cush chose to end his posts but we can rest assured that it wan’t a lack of positive energy, love and appreciation that drove him to it. If he chooses to return he will find a many waiting to welcome him. If not, Godspeed and thanks for sharing the ride.
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June 4, 2015 at 5:26 pm
Indeed. He knows he was appreciated here, and he returned his appreciation tenfold, which was amazing considering he’s only one person.
Thanks very much for your comment. 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 2:43 am
Positive energy is always a good thing. Unfortunately it takes just a little negative light sometimes to drown the positive out. I am glad that I was able to get past that. 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 4:22 pm
You will be missed! Au revoir. *wayes a kerchief in the air*
Nice of you, Linda, to let us all know about his whereabouts.
Thank you!
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June 4, 2015 at 5:23 pm
You’re very welcome, Kanika. He’ll be missed by many.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:44 am
Thank you for the kind words here! I appreciate you taking the time to do that! 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 4:18 pm
Jason is an incredibly giving person, and he will be sorely missed by many. I hope he finds contentment and happiness in whatever he decides to do.
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June 4, 2015 at 5:14 pm
I hope so too, Patricia. Thank you very much for your comment. 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 2:46 am
Kind as ever. I appreciate your words and I am actually happy to be posting once more.
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June 4, 2015 at 4:17 pm
Dang it, well that explains why his posts dropped off my reader and were’nt coming in the emails, I feel truly sad that he has shut down his wordpress , and it frosts my @ss knowing that the ignorant narcissistic troll that was constantly harassing him will be gloating and thinking he is the all powerful OZ of wordpress now , he will claim Om shut it down because of him, I will truly miss OM, I thought of him as a friend, he always helped everyone especially new bloggers, and introduced me to all of you , he always gave me constructive criticism , never mean spirited whenever I asked him this or that, he is very honest and tells it like it is, I will sorely miss him 😦
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June 4, 2015 at 5:13 pm
OM was a great blogger and is a great guy. I too am sad, but we have to understand that he’s doing what he has to for personal reasons. His family must of course come first.
We’ll all miss him greatly. Thank you kindly for your comment, Butch. I’m happy I got to meet you through Jason’s site. 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 2:47 am
All things come around. I am a firm believer in this considering countless things have come around to kick me in my own ass. 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 3:53 pm
I am new in this community. Harsh Reality was the platform from where I came to know all of you, my new friends. Jason was very kind and the thing which I learned was his bravery, I always admire his bold personality. I really miss Harsh Reality, I miss Jason. We all miss Jason.
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June 4, 2015 at 5:05 pm
I’m happy to hear he helped you out. Thanks so much for your touching words. 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 2:47 am
I appreciate your supportive words. Always happy to hear of the connections made through my blog. 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 3:52 pm
dang, and he also closed his twitter. I guess a person gets tired, especially when there are trolls who just won’t die. So here’s my tribute. For the brief time I’ve been blogging, I have found OM/HarshReality/Jason to be nothing but helpful and frequently hilarious and always admirable, he even reposted a blog I wrote to introduce me to his readers. Thank you Jason and I hope you’re back soon.
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June 4, 2015 at 5:04 pm
Thank you for sharing your experience of Jason and HarsH ReaLiTy, Deon. 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 2:48 am
I am just happy my problem is gone… for now. 🙂
I appreciate your encouragement here, thanks!
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June 4, 2015 at 3:51 pm
Jason was always a champion in my eyes, Linda G. Whenever we dropped in at each other’s blogs, he took the time to tell me exactly what he thought. No punches pulled, ever. You are a good man, Mr. Crushman. May you and your beautiful family forever prosper. Thanks for all you’ve done for me and so many. You’re not too bad for a Broncos’ fan. 😀
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June 4, 2015 at 3:54 pm
Cush! Not Crush. Dang iPhone auto correct.
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June 4, 2015 at 4:38 pm
lol… 😀
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June 4, 2015 at 5:02 pm
Yep, that’s Jason all right. You never have to guess what he’s thinking when he comments. Thanks for your comment, Mr. Mark. And by the way, I wouldn’t have seen your typo if you hadn’t pointed it out. 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 5:36 pm
I was cushed when I saw it. Crushed. 😉 Thanks, Linda G, for giving us this forum to say bye to our friend.
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June 4, 2015 at 5:50 pm
Haha! You’re very welcome, Mr. Mark. 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 2:49 am
As always I appreciate your supportive words Mark. Thank you for that. 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 3:48 pm
I thought it was strange when I couldnt see his posts anymore but at least it was for his own reason. 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 3:51 pm
Yep, at least there’s that.
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June 4, 2015 at 3:58 pm
It’s still a sad loss considering he was someone I read quite a bit. He will surely be missed.
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June 4, 2015 at 4:59 pm
He will, Wes. He certainly will.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:50 am
Hopefully you enjoy my attempts at poetry now! I appreciate you checking out the thread and for the kind comment! 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 3:45 pm
He’s not having a bad depressive episode, is he? I know he said he suffered from it.
He will be missed, but I wish I could contact him to ask him to reconsider.
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June 4, 2015 at 3:50 pm
As far as I know he’s not having a depressive episode, but who knows, right? He’s not answering his emails – I was told this by another blogger. If you don’t have his public email, contact me privately I’ll give you his public address – I don’t want to post it here. My email can be found on my “about me” page.
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June 4, 2015 at 3:53 pm
I realized that he’s contacted me before when I guest posted, so I’ll reply to that email. Hopefully he’ll respond to me.
As for depression, I know that whenever I have a bad enough episode I have to stay away from the “delete blog” buttons. It’s a gut reaction to try to remain insular. However, it affects everyone differently, so right now I’m just concerned.
Also, I really hope it’s not because of that jackass on that other blog that kept harassing him.
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June 4, 2015 at 4:59 pm
Best of luck getting in touch with him. 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 7:26 pm
I’ve sent him an email. Hopefully he shall respond. If not, then we shall have to serenade him with, “You’ve Lost That Loving Feeling” by The Righteous Brothers.
I can’t sing, so for his sake I hope he responds.
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June 4, 2015 at 7:47 pm
Oh no!! Hahaha!
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June 5, 2015 at 4:38 am
I have also sent Jason a note. I don’t mind if he doesn’t reply but just wish to know that he and is family are ok.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:51 am
Technically I get depressed when I finish any good bottle of scotch. It is like little drops of sadness at the end you know? 😉
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July 1, 2015 at 11:02 am
Exactly. I get misty-eyed after finishing a good bottle of rum.
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June 4, 2015 at 3:40 pm
Reblogged this on galesmind and commented:
Thanks Linda this makes me so sad. Jason you helped my blog and many others become what they are. That is your legacy. I will never forget how you made us think, learn and travel with you. Good bye friend.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:51 am
I appreciate the kind words Gale and thanks for sharing this post! I hope all is going well! 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 9:57 am
Very well and very happy to see you back.
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June 4, 2015 at 3:22 pm
Thanks, Linda. As you know, I was worried when I couldn’t find OM’s site. But at least it’s comforting to know that it was his own decision to leave – I kept envisioning men in dark suits visiting his home in the middle of the night and seizing his computer (and him).
Jason – If you’re reading this, please know that you will be missed. It was especially fun to occasionally trade sparring comments, and I, for one, truly appreciated the support you gave to me and other newbies.
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June 4, 2015 at 3:26 pm
Nah, it was entirely his decision. No dark suited agents and most importantly, no men in white coats! 😉
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July 1, 2015 at 2:52 am
Technically they were blue suits if I were to be honest. Thankfully that is past me now. 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 3:17 pm
Nooooooooo!! Why did you leave us, Mr. OM?
It was a pleasure serving with you, sir. Wishing you all the best on your journey, and here’s to hoping we’ll catch up and meet each other soon.
Thanks for letting us know, Linda, and thanks for such a heartwarming post!
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June 4, 2015 at 3:21 pm
You’re welcome, C.S. 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 2:53 am
I appreciate your well wishes and kind words here! Thank you! 🙂
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June 4, 2015 at 3:11 pm
Beautifully written my dear – thank you.
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June 4, 2015 at 3:13 pm
And thank you too, Belinda. Your own post was very touching indeed.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:53 am
Your post is next Belinda. Man Linda… that was far more comments than I expected lol… 😉
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July 1, 2015 at 6:22 am
Uuuuh – COOL! 😉
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June 4, 2015 at 3:11 pm
This makes me very sad. 😢
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June 4, 2015 at 3:13 pm
Me too, Quixie.
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June 4, 2015 at 3:20 pm
I have so few readers as it is so when Doobster and Jason left that was a significant percentage – ha! No, but seriously it makes me very sad. Is it sad that it makes me sad? My fav bloggers are all disappearing 😔
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June 4, 2015 at 3:24 pm
No, I know exactly how you feel. The WordPress community is much like an extended family, so it’s natural I think to be sad when someone leaves “home.”
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July 1, 2015 at 2:54 am
Turn that frown upside down! It is bacon time! ^_^
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July 1, 2015 at 10:29 am
Yes! BACON ::salivating:: 😀
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June 4, 2015 at 3:06 pm
What a terrible shame that he has decided to close down Harsh Reality. From what I knew of him, he was nothing but helpful to other bloggers, especially us newbies. He gave us load of opportunities to promote our blogs through his own. I am sad that he has had enough, and wish him and his family the very best.
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June 4, 2015 at 3:12 pm
Thanks for the comment, Edwina. He was incredibly helpful. He’ll be greatly missed.
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June 4, 2015 at 3:16 pm
Yes he will indeed.
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July 1, 2015 at 2:55 am
I appreciate your recognition and kind words! Thanks for taking the time to drop a supportive line. 🙂
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July 1, 2015 at 3:00 am
You deserve a lot more recognition than you ever got, Jason. I hope you and the family are well,:-)
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July 1, 2015 at 3:04 am
All is quiet on the front. I can’t ask for more than that. 🙂
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