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Hoarding and the ‘I Told You So’s

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I’m a hoarder. There. I admitted it.

That’s not to say that my house is full of stuff I’m never going to use. In fact I love throwing things away. Keeping my life as simple as possible, by not buying what I don’t need and not keeping what I haven’t used in years is something I strive for.

No, my hoarding is reserved for my technological devices. I keep everything, sent and received. Thank goodness for online resources, because I don’t own enough hard drive space to store everything I keep by a long shot.

Why do I keep everything? Some of it is obvious. Pictures, for example, are not easily replaced when they are of family. And stories – I have some as old as ten years and more. Looking back I can see what I’ve done to hone my skills… or at least I like to think I have.

However, it’s my stash of emails that I find the most useful and fascinating. I’m continually moaning about what modern technology has done to disintegrate social interaction: it has become easier and more efficient to email or text than talk to one another. But that’s where the beauty lies.

I remember having arguments with people about what they said or didn’t say. Sometimes these conflicts would last hours, days, even months, and they could never truly be resolved because it was one person’s word against the other. You see where I’m going with this, right?

Now, not only can we retain proof of what was said, a well organized collection of communication can even make it easy to find what we’re looking for, and at the click of a button, we can obtain a proof-positive record of exactly what went down. Not only that, we can record with ease, pictures of the point we’re trying to prove. Say, for instance, you have a friend who ALWAYS does something – take that funny face they make when they’re concentrating for instance – but they are convinced they don’t do it. With technology at our fingertips, all we have to do is whip out that handy phone, snap a pic, and Voila! Told you so!

You didn’t tell me you were going to meet me at 8pm on Thursday for drinks? HA! Here’s the text that proves it!

So there you have it. The reason I hoard everything; because I never know when I’m going to want to prove a point.

And possibly why I don’t have very many friends. 😉

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Author: Linda G. Hill

There's a writer in here, clawing her way out.

13 thoughts on “Hoarding and the ‘I Told You So’s

  1. S.K. Nicholls's avatar

    Too funny. I don’t delete much email unless it is spam. It has saved my life many times, and even though we do most of our bill paying and business over the internet these days, I insist on paper statements and have those in a huge file cabinet by my computer. They have saved my life on more than one occasion also. I like the idea of being able to take pics and say, “I told you so!” My daughter said she never whined until I tape recorded a few whining sessions years ago and played them back to her.

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  2. Janice's avatar

    That’s funny….especially your last line. 🙂

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  3. Marie A Bailey's avatar

    Good points, Linda. I actually don’t converse much by email (except with a particular group of people that you and I both know 🙂 ) But at my work place, my email folder is what saves my sanity. I definitely keep almost every single email because inevitably I will need that email from six months ago to prove that, “yes, I was told to do this, not that”! I’ve even had to reach back to emails of years ago to find one nugget of information that no one else had at hand. I wish I could be that organized in my personal life 😉

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  4. Oliana's avatar

    Oh boy, does that ring a bell! My problem is I get fed up after 500 or 600 emails and I just randomly transfer to the bin…not a good idea being so impulsive.So I am a hoarder too with sporadic impusivity. But I have safely transferred some in a file..Oh by the way, perhaps you should get a mobile hard drive. I purchased one after my last laptop totally crashed.

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  5. tjtherien's avatar

    I chuckle…most email I delete after I’ve read it unless I know I may need the information at a later date…I have kept a few emails for years and I think the only reason I do keep them is they aren’t on my computer if they took up space on my hard drive I would probably delete them once I no longer needed the information they contain… I’m going to have to think on this because I consider myself a minimalist and I tend not to keep what I don’t have an immediate foreseen use for and yet digitally it appears I don’t do that…

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