Yesterday I had to take my son, Alex, to the doctor to get a note for school. It wasn’t for a high-risk field trip; it wasn’t because of some strange sort of disease the school needed to be assured he was free from – nothing like that.
I needed a note to say that he was allowed to eat. The first conversation on the phone with the doctor’s secretary went something like this:
Me: Hi. I need an appointment to get a doctor’s note.
Secretary: Okay, what is it for?
Me: Well, you see, the nurse at his school won’t let him eat until he has an all-clear from the doctor.
Secretary: Soooo, when was the last time he went to school?
Me: Today.
Secretary: How long has it been since the school didn’t allow him to eat.
Me: It’s been about a week.
Secretary: ….
Me: So can I get an appointment soon? Or…
Secretary: I don’t understand.
Me: Neither do I.
All of this, of course, came about because he aspirated (inhaled and had lodged in his right lung) a piece of food on Christmas Eve. For the most part he is tube fed, but the school wants to make sure it’s safe for him to eat before they’ll let him do so.
So today I went to the doctor. That conversation went as follows:
Doctor: Sooo… what do you want me to write?
Me: Just say he can eat. OH, and drink. I don’t want to have to bother you again in case they decide that’s against the rules as well.
Doctor: And he’s been fine when he eats at home, right?
Me: As fine as he’s ever been.
Doctor: Oookay.
(She starts typing.)
Me: I guess this isn’t something you write a note for every day, eh?
Doctor: Err, no.
Today, Alex went to school with the note in his backpack. After not being allowed to eat with the other kids for a week, he’s a happy camper.
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January 16, 2014 at 5:29 pm
Health and blooming safety will be the death of us all!
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January 16, 2014 at 6:54 pm
It seems that way sometimes!
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January 16, 2014 at 6:54 pm
yes it does!!
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January 16, 2014 at 2:11 pm
These encounters can be trying…in my experience, doctors receptionists are officious and power-crazed, guarding their precious charge like mother-lions!
As both teacher and parent, I know it from both sides. While most parents are normal and nice (like us), there are a few extremists who want to blame everyone for their ‘little treasure’s’ problems. 🙂
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January 16, 2014 at 4:15 pm
Oh you are so right about doctors’ receptionists! I don’t understand people who try to place blame elsewhere… but I guess the school can’t be too careful. 😛
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January 16, 2014 at 2:00 pm
I am sorry to hear about Alex aspirating a piece of food, but I am glad he is okay now and can eat at school. 😀 (Schools, I guess, are so afraid of lawsuits – put it was a funny post! — except for Alex aspirating food).
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January 16, 2014 at 4:13 pm
Thanks very much. 🙂 Sometimes you’ve just got to laugh… I know I do. With everything that goes on in my life it’s the only thing that keeps me sane sometimes. 🙂
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January 16, 2014 at 12:00 pm
Oh, I know….I hear ya!!! So many people suing nowadays, I suppose they just want to cover themselves….so frustrating though
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January 16, 2014 at 4:09 pm
Yep, everyone wants their asses covered… it’s the questioning look on the poor kid’s face that bothers me the most.
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January 17, 2014 at 4:14 pm
It would me too, Linda, so sorry for that!!
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January 17, 2014 at 4:16 pm
Happily it was only a temporary thing. 🙂
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January 18, 2014 at 1:52 pm
Good to hear!
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January 16, 2014 at 11:55 am
The rules these schools come up with can be so ridiculous sometimes. I understand their concern, but if the parent says their child can eat, let the child eat. I’ve dealt with some absurd stuff with my son as well and it can be very frustrating.
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January 16, 2014 at 4:08 pm
It is frustrating. I’m sure you can relate quite well.
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January 16, 2014 at 11:08 am
Its amazing what we take for granted sometimes. I’m glad he’s allowed to eat again.
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January 16, 2014 at 4:07 pm
Thanks, Dave. It’s true, sometimes it takes seeing how other people live to realize just what you have. 🙂
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January 16, 2014 at 11:06 am
The odd hoops that schools create to avoid liability.
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January 16, 2014 at 4:06 pm
That’s what it’s all about I guess.
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January 16, 2014 at 6:45 pm
Absolutely. And this coming from non-litigious Canada! Bureaucracy run amok.
Good for Alex. Glad to hear he’s past the feeding tube or whatever it was.
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January 16, 2014 at 6:53 pm
He’s not past it… he’s just eating little bits of food in order to socialize – it really means the world to him to be like everyone else. So yes, this is a big victory for him. 🙂
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January 16, 2014 at 7:36 pm
They don’t sue much in Canada?
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January 16, 2014 at 8:37 pm
Much less. Settlements tend to be smaller, and the loser pays courts fees/costs. Discourages frivolous court action.
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January 16, 2014 at 9:13 pm
We really need that kind of system in this country. People sue over everything here.
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January 16, 2014 at 9:42 pm
The downside is that judges can threaten you with $$$ in court fees to get you to drop a case if you’re self represented.
Happened to me in my divorce. Basically, you’re guaranteed to lose, and get an extra $10K bill that you can’t afford to boot.
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January 16, 2014 at 10:21 pm
I can see that for frivolous lawsuits, but a divorce seems wrong to do that.
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January 16, 2014 at 10:42 pm
It was, but was only the tip of the iceberg. Bad enough that I am writing a two-book work about it.
Rumour has it that Linda peeked at the manuscript. }:-)> she is so good for a chap’s delicate ego.
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January 16, 2014 at 10:49 pm
Ha! By the time I’m finished promoting your work, you won’t be able to break your ego with a lead pipe, my dear. 😉
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January 16, 2014 at 10:54 pm
You’re a treasure, LGH. I am leaving my wine cellar in my will. Given my Irish-Canadian liver, don’t get your hopes up.
There may not be anything left.
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January 16, 2014 at 10:56 pm
In that case, just leave me your liver. haha
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January 17, 2014 at 5:30 am
Won’t be much of that left, either.
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January 17, 2014 at 6:28 am
That’s pretty bad.
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January 16, 2014 at 8:51 pm
Even small gains can mean a lot.
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January 16, 2014 at 8:58 pm
Agreed. 🙂
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