There are, arguably, pros and cons to just about everything, if not absolutely everything. It’s like a yin/yang sort of deal.
The biggest pros and cons I’ve had to deal with lately–meaning the ones I’ve had to deal with most often–are things like whether to get up at the crack of dawn to take Alex for a walk or get another hour of sleep. Walk pros=getting exercise while it’s not too humid to breathe, walk cons=sleep is good.
I do realize I’m writing this at 1:18am, so “sleep is good” and knowing what’s good for me are obviously on the opposite end of the spectrum. I think it’s going to rain in the morning though, so I should be able to sleep in.
(Photo: A recent photo of a crack-of-dawn walk – sunlight shining through the branches of a maple tree.)
Conundrum #2, the pros and cons of eating crackers vs ice cream. Cracker pros=better for me, cracker cons=they’re not as delicious as ice cream and they don’t relieve my heart burn.
But it all comes back to the exercise and what I can afford to eat.
Conclusion: food is life.
The most important set of pros and cons weighing on me at the moment–me and all the other parents in the world–are those surrounding school.
Pros for Alex=much-needed learning in a place where he can concentrate and be taught in his own language: ASL. And having him at school will mean I’ll have a break–the first since March 12th.
Cons=the risk, however slight, of catching Covid-19. With his heart condition, it’s too much to risk. Even though we’ve had one case in our area since May, when we had four cases. His classes normally have a capacity of five students, maximum. The country currently has fewer than 5,000 active cases. And it’s a big country. But all it takes is one person driving through …
I may be paranoid, but I don’t think I can bring myself to send him.
Such a tough decision.

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August 21, 2020 at 9:29 pm
I hope they give you lots of options about school. It would be nice if he could drop in for socially distanced Physical Ed. So much could be done outdoors… well maybe not in the winter time. Yeah, sleep is good.
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August 21, 2020 at 12:34 am
I stumbled across this one… I too have the pros an cons… Sleep is important for me but I am an insomniac and also, I tend to do better when I get some creative time in and lately that’s been late at night.
I cannot imagine sending my child to school, but also I am in the states. In Oregon it is either reckless or terrified, and we both tend toward terrified these days, watching how stupid our fellow Oregonians are, including our Governor (whom I into office). It comes down to trust, and from our perspective it is hard to trust anything in the states. I am happy to be out of that last decision and don’t envy you.
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August 21, 2020 at 12:34 am
And BTW, you are totally wrong… Ice cream is much better for your health!
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August 21, 2020 at 6:16 pm
Yay! Haha!
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August 21, 2020 at 6:17 pm
That really hits the nail on the head. We’re all in a position of having to trust one another. Harder than it really should be.
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August 17, 2020 at 4:56 am
Yes, it is a tough decision. I liked your thoughts about exercise, sleep and ice cream and the photo is beautiful.
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August 17, 2020 at 8:00 am
Thanks, Lakshmi. 🙂
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August 17, 2020 at 1:20 am
Awe! Your not paranoid at all! He’s high risk, I doubt I’d send him either! Hopefully you got some sleep, and enjoyed your icecream! Lol.
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August 17, 2020 at 8:00 am
Thanks, Carol Anne. I discovered a new flavour of Haagen Dazs and it’s so addictive! 😛
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August 16, 2020 at 7:51 pm
Your conclusion is 100% truth. Bless.
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August 16, 2020 at 10:03 pm
❤
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August 16, 2020 at 10:12 am
Still no like button and it is nice to see that you are writing for your own prompts.
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August 16, 2020 at 10:03 pm
I’m often late for my prompts, but I haven’t missed one in five and half years. The lack of a like button must be on your end, because I have 41 likes on this post.
Weird.
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August 16, 2020 at 9:00 am
Wishing you well with your school decision. I’m grateful that Canada in general and your area in particular are doing so well with the pandemic that it’s possible to make a considered decision about school.
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August 16, 2020 at 10:01 pm
Thanks, Joanne. If they combine in-person classes with online ones, the decision will be a bit easier. I have a couple of weeks before I find out. One way or another, I’ll be driving him to and from school – no bus this fall. THAT one I’ve already decided.
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August 17, 2020 at 6:13 pm
I know he gets sick easily. Distancing is very difficult on buses; in school, they can manage it a bit better if they are doing hybrid model so that only some percentage of students are in the building at a time. It’s all a work in progress…
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August 17, 2020 at 8:24 pm
It is. I hope not too many kids and teachers get sick before they figure it out.
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August 18, 2020 at 3:25 pm
Me, too.
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August 16, 2020 at 9:00 am
Tough decision on the school. There is wisdom in waiting. At least you will sleep better. (Maybe)
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August 16, 2020 at 9:57 pm
Indeed, I probably will.
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August 16, 2020 at 7:19 am
It’s so hard Linda you have to go with whatever you feel is right 💜
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August 16, 2020 at 9:56 pm
I do think it’s going to wind up being a gut decision. ❤
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August 17, 2020 at 1:05 am
Yes indeed the head is no good in these circumstances 💜
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August 16, 2020 at 7:03 am
Pros and cons lose their value when confronted with emotions. I’ve been walking our pup earlier and earlier in the heat. Today, we walk very early, to beat the rain. She’s hard to deal with if we miss the walk.
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August 16, 2020 at 9:56 pm
We just missed getting rained on this morning too. And yeah, so is Alex. 😛
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August 16, 2020 at 3:48 am
It’s a tough decision.
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August 16, 2020 at 9:55 pm
It’s the worst.
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August 16, 2020 at 2:22 am
The last decision is the toughest!
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August 16, 2020 at 9:54 pm
It really is.
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August 16, 2020 at 10:30 pm
👍
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